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Flagging America

Living in America is quite a gift.  My family and I went to Washington D.C. and New York City last Thanksgiving (thank you Grandpa).  With July 4th approaching, I went back at looked through the hundreds of photos I took on that trip (oh yeah, I brought ALL my gear). 

I was amazed at how many photos I captured that intentionally, or unintentionally, contained American Flags.   I love that we are surrounded by reminders of who we are and what we stand for.

I am only posting a FRACTION of images that I took, but I made sure to included all the ones with Flags in them.

Happy 4th of July!

NINE

Yesterday, we celebrated my youngest daughter's NINTH birthday.  I put that in all caps because I can't belive that the "baby" is a NINE years old (let alone my other daughter who turned 10 just last month).  I was NINE when my dad died.  I'm two years older than my dad was when he died at 42, and I was NINE years old.  I look at her and realize just how young I was when I lost him.  And I realize how incredibly young HE was when he died.  Enough about me.   

You will not find a sweeter, more genuinely "good" person than my 9 year old.  She lights up a room when she's in it.  She gets happy for others who have good things happen to them.  She shares her things without even thinking about it.  And she idolizes her older (by 13 months) sister.

Even getting a simple "sparkly lip gloss" as one of her gifts, she is as excited as if it was a Pony. She's full of joy and wonder and excitement , but most of all , happy.

Last night when she was getting ready for bed, she looked at me and said:  " I feel very special". Well, just by the statement alone, you can see that she is.

I know I say it all the time, but you blink, and those little moments are gone forever.  I look back at pictures of her from the hospital.  Or learning to walk, or not needed a booster seat anymore. . . all gone.  

One thing I hope for every day , is that she stays this sweet wonderful person throughout her life and that it will never be gone. The world needs more of her kind.

Happy Birthday E.


Pride Week Wedding Photography FREE Giveaway

In honor of  Pride Week I am giving away a FREE wedding shoot to one LGBT couple.  Yes, "Free".  No gimmicks, no hidden fees, NO MONEY!  

I will be there the day of the wedding to shoot the couple getting ready, the ceremony and reception.  Afterwards, the couple will get an online gallery with all color corrected images , a download link for all the digital files, and a professional video slideshow.  

There have been so many positive strides made in recent times, that I wanted to keep the momentum going and simply do something nice for a loving couple.

Please fill out the form below and answer two simple questions:  

  1. How did you know your partner was "the one"?
  2. Why do you feel I should choose your wedding to shoot?

If you are reading this and you're not an LGBT couple, and/or you're not getting married, please send this to someone who is!

                         Deadline to enter is 11:59pm on July 7, 2014

 

Shooting for the "Stars"

I received a new lens for Father's day.  It's quite an amazing piece of crafted work itself, but it is a throwback to an 1840 lens that is manual focus and changing apertures is achieved by dropping in various metal plates with different sized aperture openings (will do a blog post on the lens itself soon).   One of the "specialty" aperture plates is in the shape of a star creating a fun star "bokeh" effect (there is a teardrop and a hexagon shape as well).  I tested it out on my oldest daughter who has volleyball on the brain now at all times.  You will rarely see her without one in her hands.  I love to see her enthusiasm for the sport (and she happens to be really good already. . .but I'm not biased).  So what better way to take a portrait of the future Volleyball "star"

Francis Ford Coppola Winery

A Saturday trip up to the Napa Valley with the family for the day felt like a get-a-way to a much more distant land.  Spending the afternoon at the Francis Ford Coppola Winery is nothing short of spectacular.  From the private cabines, to reserved cushioned lounge chairs, bocce ball courts, a pavillion for summer evening dance classes, wine tasting, vineyard tours, and pool-side food and beverage service, it's hard to find a more relaxing place to visit.  However, since I'm not one to just "sit and relax", I end up shooting the day's events.

Surrounded by rows and rows of vineyards, it's truly a special place.  There is a large restaurant and bar in the gorgeous indoor marketplace. Inside, it's a mixture between a store with everything from hand-made Italian ceramics, to sketching and painting products.  This amazing building also doubles as a small museum of Francis Ford Coppola's movie history.  From Vito Corleone's desk and chair from The Godfather,  a Tucker ("Tucker") rotating on a platform in the center, and a case full of Oscars.  

Below are images to give you a "taste" of the day.


Senior-ific

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It's that time of year, so here is another senior session with this lovely young grad.  She started out a little nervous, but as you can see, she warmed up to the fact that a giant guy with a camera was taking her picture, and honestly, she knocked it out of the park. . .

Senioritis

Yes, it's that time when high school seniors are headed to the finish line of their high school careers , hopefully embarking on exciting new opportunities.  With that, I give you Jordan, a beautiful high school senior capturing this time in her life as this chapter ends and the next one begins.  A country girl at heart, Jordan made the most out of her boots and cowgirl hat to capture her wonderful sprit.  

The Natural

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Taking photographs of so many different people of so many ages, can have it's challenges.  One of the biggest is often pulling them out of their shells.  The more the "photograph-ee" "goes with it", the better the images look.  This young lady needed no help from me.  She was a true natural, and the camera loved her.  My advice to many girls is to "smile with your eyes".  Some get it, some don't. . . some can do it, some can't.  Well I didn't even need to give that advice, and she was doing it with ease. . . .I think the results are obvious!  Thank M for making it so easy on ME :)


Future Star . . .

This beautiful young girl was going on her first audition and needed some professional headshots.  Never having done this before, in my opinion, she "nailed it!".  She was a natural.  She is as lovely a young lady as she is beautiful.  Let this be a lesson to everyone who is camera shy . . . .If you can be yourself and "go with it", (even when there is a giant guy with a camera in your face) your photographs will shine.

Farmgirl Flowers

Farmgirl Flowers

A few weeks back I got to shoot another story for Zip Car's online magainze Ziptopia.  Below are some of the images I shot that didn't make the piece.

This was about Farmgirl Flowers in the Flower Market in San Francisco.  Their mission statement :

Farmgirl Flowers is different, but not in the "Honey, I tried a new recipe" sort of way you might be thinking. Our goal is to completely change the way flowers are purchased in the United States. Yeah, we like to dream big, and we hope you do, too.

What's our plan? We provide beautiful flowers at a reasonable price, support Bay Area farmers and businesses, minimize our environmental impact as much as possible, and save you time through a simple ordering process.

Christina Stembel is as charming as her flower arrangements (and even at the horrible sunrise hour).  Once again, it was so fun to meet and shoot another local business (and it smelled amazing !!)

Check out Farmgirl Flowers online. . http://farmgirlflowers.com/

And, to see more images I shot and the story on Christina and Farmgirl Flowers, go to http://www.zipcar.com/ziptopia

Risk Takers . . .

We had visitors at our back door last night which is rather common.  But this time, it was the other kids of the family.  We first met these three a while back when they got stranded in our garbage can.  Because the garbage can was unusually empty, once they got in, the little ones couldn't get out.  We heard a noise and movement coming from the big blue can, and peeked inside.  That was then . . .

The Catch . . .

The Release  . . .

This is now. . .

Usually Mom is the one that heads to our back porch looking for leftover cat food , fallen scraps from our kids, or if the garage door is open. . . .JACKPOT!  But tonight, with these scoundrels looking so small and cute, and having "history" with these guys, my wife, the "animal whisperer", decided to engage them and offer them some treats.  We started by just cracking the door open.  This brave one, now named "Olaf", would 'reach' into the door to take food from my wife's hand.  He would sometimes stick his nose in and take a nibble.  But this was not nearly good enough for my wife, who too the brave one, went outside and crouched down to get her "Dr. Doolitte" on.  Only Olaf was brave enough to actually come right up to her and eat and take food right out of her hand.  The others waited close by for extra pieces being tossed to them.  Olaf was chowing down and will now go back to his tree, fat and happy.  He wasn't even afraid when I pulled out my camera and lights (yes, I'm a huge photography nerd).  

The moral of this story is . . . take a risk, there could be a big reward in it for you.  For Olaf, he was bathing in a post glow meal.  For my wife, she has a new friend.

Here was last night's festivities . . .

 

Becoming a man . . .

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There is a time in every boy's life that he becomes a man.  In the Jewish tradition, it is his Bar Mitzvah.  The dedication and commitment  is one deserving of a big party afterwards :).  The Sukinnek Family did just that.  A beautiful ceremony performed by the Rabbai, a room full of family and friends, and an astounding job by the Bar Mitavah boy (man) made this evening a truly wonderful wonderful one.  Congratulations to the entire Sukinnek family.  I was honored to be a small part of it.

The Rothbart Family

This is the Rothbart Family.  Wonderful family I've had the pleasure of knowing for many years.  This was the first time , though, that I got to shoot their family.  This was a great location up in Marin that lent itself to many different looks that I had JUST shot at weeks before with the Rhodes family.  Since they knew each other, and the Rothbarts saw the Rhodes' pictures, they too agreed that it was a beautiful location.  The kids particularly liked my "silly face" shots where I have everyone make the craziest face they can.  Everyone had a good time, even the furriest of Rothbarts :)

When I first approached this shoot, like all my shoots, I want the images to be spectacular.  ESPECIALLY when you're friends with the subject AND the subjects happen to be really creative people themselves.  Part of me thought. . . "oh, I had just shot here, so I know what it looks like, where everything is, this will be easy".  But then I thought. . . "Wait!!!  I don't want to simply duplicate what I did from another shoot!  And they know each other!  That would be the WORST if they both sent out Christmas cards that looked identical".  So I had to force myself to go in with an open mind and no 'preconceived' ideas about what to shoot.   Although we used some of the same locations (because it would be wrong not to shoot in areas that look so good), I tried not to let a previous shoot influence me. 

I really tried to make sure to read the day and the location and the light and get what was going to look the best for that moment.

After looking at the images when we were done, I was thrilled the way they came out, but in my mind, I noticed some similarities between the last shoot and this one, but we managed to get a different look out of this shoot.  I don't know if it's just the way my brain works to compose a shot, or I was subconsciously influenced by my previous experience there, or, I'm just reading into it too much, but in the end, it's the people who really make the photographs, and I was lucky to have such wonderful subjects.

In an instant. . .

Having lost so many people in my life, I had always hoped to marry into a big family.  I did just that.  And not just a big family, but a an incredible one. And none more incredible than Elsie Bettencourt. . . the grandmother to my wife, and great grandmother to my kids.  Whenever I'd see Elsie (the Elsie of my daughter's name Elsie-Jane), she'd greet me with a small laugh and smile as though she were saying. . "I get to see you again?".  She was as sharp as anyone could be.  At 94, the past few years have brought difficulties in getting sick, surgeries, falls, etc.  But each and every time, she's faced them with the strength that she faced her entire life.

She lost her mother when she was in the 8th grade, and with a father at work to provide for the family, Elsie took over the role of mother in her family taking care of her father and two younger sisters .  She dropped out of school to take on that full time job.  Her life has been about family, hard work and doing whatever needs to be done.  No excuses, no complaining, just doing it.  It's incredible that this woman only had an 8th grade education, because when you talked with her, you felt she knew the answers to everything.

We all gathered together yesterday afternoon to celebrate another 90 year old birthday in the family .  Elsie came out for it as well. 

I didn't see Elsie come in, but I saw her sitting in a chair after I had been there for a while.  I came around her from behind her and kissed her on her cheek without her seeing me.  I then made my way all the way around in front of her and I got that little chuckle and smile again. 

I told her how great she looked, and she gave me a little wave away and a "pffff" sound because she could never take a compliment.  But she did. .. she looked beautiful.  Dressed up for the party in a leopard print jacket, hair done and ready to be with the family.

I know she's not my "blood" grandmother, but she surely has always made me feel as though I was one of her grandsons.

Today, my wife called to let me know that she had passed away.  In those 12 short hours since I last kissed her cheek, I will no longer have a chance to see that little smirk and laugh.  I will certainly miss this incredible woman.

 

The Corkern Family

In my continuing series of (not wanting to spoil the Christmas card ) Family Portrait Shoots   , meet the Corkern Family.   We shot this at the Grandparents home (which is beyond beautiful) to take advantage of the fantastic surroundings.  Unfortunately, I couldn't convince Grandpa to get in any of the photos.  The kids in these photos, as I think you'll be able to see, are so full of personality, that they bring an extra life to the images.  We had so much fun exploring down in the little nooks and crannies around the grounds.

The Runckel Family

Another in the series of "Family photo session for the Holidays", the Runckel family found my card at a local place I take my kids to all the time.  I don't know if I'm just incredibly lucky, or there is something about the type of photographs I take that attract a certain type of person/family, but once again, an incredibly nice family.  I think my photographs really try to focus on the emotion of the moment (even when a posed shot for a Christmas card).  I try and have fun with the people and bring out who they are.  And maybe all these wonderful people connect with the images , and therefore call me.  Well, whatever the reason, I find myself continuously fortunate to meet and photography some wonderful people. . . .

On this shoot, the youngest Runckel even decided to help out and assist me :)  That along with an impromptu football game added up to a lot of fun on the day.

The Runckels . . .

The Osmonson Family

As you will see from the images we took at their family session shoot, the Osmonson family are a kick in the pants.  Similarly to my last blog post, these guys make me laugh while I'm getting to do my job.  Not a mean bone in their body, Carly and Aaron know how to have fun and live in the moment.  Their idea for a Christmas card was to show the "Family Photo", and then "the other 364 days".  They came up with the concept, and I just shot it.  The only reason I think we had to do more takes than necessary was so I could stop laughing.  Thanks Osmonsons for making my job fun and easy.

Down the Rhodes

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The problem with doing a lot of shoots for people over the holidays is that you can't share for fear of spoiling the long awaited Christmas card :).  So in the coming weeks, I'll be sharing some family photo sessions I did over the past several months  . . ..

With that said, meet the Rhodes Family.   Their shoot was a particularly fun one for me as I shot Courtney and Aaron's wedding several years ago.  To say they light up a room when they walk in would be an understatement.  I find myself smiling when even "thinking" about these two.  And now, they brought the new two smaller Rhodes and other family with them.  Each and everyone of them nicer than the next.  It's wonderful when you get your subjects to laugh and bring out who they are in photographs, but it's especially fun when your subjects make YOU laugh and have fun.  I can't wait til next year's shoot of this fantastic family.

A rare day out . . .

This was one of those rare days when both the girls and I have the day off, and my wife didn't.  As much as I love when my wife is around, it's also fun to have a day with just the little ladies.  So we went to the city to the new Exploratorium.  I struggled with weather or not to take my camera, and I decided not to for two reasons. . .1, I wanted to be IN the moment with the kids instead documenting it or watching it through my lens., and 2, my kids have become so annoyed with me always shooting, that I thought if I just took a few with my iphone, that I'd get a better response (or lack of opposition at least). . . here is a quick slice of our day. . .

Self Taught . . .

Periodically, my wife and kids and I will do things to help those in need.  The goal is two fold. . . 1, to really give to those that have so little, and 2, selfishly, teach our children to be grateful for what they have and to realize how lucky they are. 

Typically, our efforts are making 60 sandwiches and bagging them with chips, cookies, water, etc.  They get dropped off at a shelter and then they magically get to the people who need them.

Well, last night, we went into the San Francisco, in the shadow of City Hall (all lit up in Red and Gold after the 49ers win), with sandwiches, water, oranges, blankets, socks, t-shirts, soaps and lotions to hand them directly to the folks that need them.

It was incredibly eye opening for me personally.  Most of the people were so kind and so grateful, but most of all, fair.  They only took what they "needed" and said things like "I already have a blanket, so I'll leave that for someone else". 

I don't know, but I find that unselfishness incredible when each person is just trying to stay alive out there in the cold.

We live in the "me first" generation.  . I see it with so many people that have so much, so to see the direct opposite with people who truly need, blew me away.

As a photographer, I had the notion to bring my camera to document this.   Maybe I'm a bad photographer, but I just didn't feel that it was right to take images of these people as though they were part of a show, so I opted to leave the camera and home.  The only photo I took was with my iPhone of the beautiful lights lighting up City Hall.

Believe me, there are MANY more people out there who do TONS more than me to help others (as a matter of fact, what we did is nothing by comparison to real true samaritan ) , but I hope it taught my children a fraction of what it taught me last night.